Love and Hate
I love the moment, when the magical wind of love, for the first time, touched my heart,
I hate the moment, when your tears used to break me apart!
I love the moment, when you recited poetries for me,
I hate the moment, when I had to wait for your messages to see.
I love the moment, when I was absorbed in your love, smiled like a child,
I hate the moment, when your negligence implanted doubts in my mind!
I love the moment, when I dreamt of building a Disney-like cottage with you,
I hate the moment, when the mirror of that dream was broken, by your liel-covered saw!
I love the moment, when life taught me to be realistic,
I hate the moment, when your Absence or presence no longer make me enthusiastic!
Fear kills the strength,
Betrayal kills the trust...
You are the hero of your life,
Love yourself first!
Do not do to your children!
You want your child to respect you and others. You want your child to be polite, faithful, humble. You want them to be understanding, patient, full of integrity. You want children to be well mannered! But you get them totally or partially opposite? Then you blame them. But have you ever thought for a while why your child is bearing this malversation in them?
It is thought that, family is the primary institute to build up virtuous children. Parents are the principal here!
If you want your child to be friendly and virtuous, then please do not do the followings to them! :-
• When at the age of 1-10 :
I. Do not ignore their presence and pay heed to what they want you to hear. Never say “You are a child so you don’t know……. ". such words grieve them. Rather Explain to them fondly.
II. Do not beat them on very silly reasons. Make them understand the positivity.
III. Do not always show anger to them. Rather teach them how to keep patience and be polite.
IV. Never hurt/Humiliate/criticize your elder child in front of the younger.
V. Never give immediately what they want, if it’s not that much necessary /good for them. It'll lead them to indomitable ambition in future.
VI. Never trash talk about others specially in front of your child. It will teach them to criticize others.
VII. Never do racism and discrimination. It'll teach your child to do the same!
VIII. Keep them away from family problems and Violations.
IX. Do not get drunk in front of your children.
• When at the age of 11-20 :
i. In his/her developing phase, please never put your hand on them! Try to Understand their swinging mood.
ii. Never grin at them while they are in anger or distress. This hits their self-esteem and results in increased aggression.
iii. Never compare their ability/Marks of result or anything else with other's child. This leads their mind to think him/herself inferior.
iv. Never mislead your child. ( Like letting them be drunk, Alcoholic or drug /Technology addicted)
v. Do not pressurize them on your choice. Show them the right paths then let them to choose whichever they like.
vi. While in anger/severe mood swing (during adolescence period), instead of provoking their anger conciliate them with love and patience.
vii. Never discriminate willingly or subconsciously among your children.
viii. Never disrespect / discourage their good works /opinions.
The little life of a Pup!
Sara had just come home and discovered a new member in her family! A long hairy, brown-black colored, fluffy tiny German shepherd puppy! He was staring at Sara with an amusement in his face! Actually he was trying to understand what was going on! He was sitting in the baranda. A Middle-aged, handsome man and his beautiful wife were sitting there too!
“Where is he from?”, Sara shouted with joy! Her father smiled and said “He is from your uncle's restaurant. He gifted us this puppy. Did you like it?” “Surely the best gift!”, replied Sara, fondling the pup's ears. The puppy felt very comfortable by then, because of the care of his new masters. He started a new journey there. Everybody called him “Rocky”.
Rocky was a 2 month old puppy, full of liveliness, swanky and cunning! He used to play with Sara, the 3rd and youngest daughter of his master. Sara gave him balls and a teddy bear to play. Rocky punctured all the balls by his subtle teeth! Since then, no one gave him anything to play, rather his favorite toys were the rocks, bricks and dry boughs of betel nut and coconut! Playing with these things, he broke his two valuable canine teeth! Rocky was too much naughty, he used to steal shoes, bit them and ruptured them into pieces ! Whatever… Whenever he did anything wrong and was about to be punished, he at once changed his face like innocent, not interacted eye to eye! His overloaded cuteness melted the master's heart and no one could punish him.
One night, in 2007, Master became so sick. Ambulance came and master got into it. He even didn’t noticed at rocky. But rocky was feeling sick for his master. After that day, master never came back! Rocky became sick and didn’t eat anything for 4 days after his Master’s death. He used to cry, remembering their happy moments. But after 6-7 months everything became the same as past. Rocky became lively again! The naughty boys of outside, used to disturb him by throwing stones, and making Weird sounds. Rocky shouted at them angrily! He was very fond of his junior master, Sara’s elder brother, who taught him how to attack on something. After learning this technique, rocky killed two fruit trees just by attacking on them and biting! The mistress became very angry at this, but again his innocent face was able to melt her anger into water.
In 2012, rocky was 8 year's old. Suddenly in April, He started to suffering from a severe pain in urination. Due to lack of hospitals, he couldn’t get enough medication. Everyone tried hard to recover him. Rocky, who was always ready to eat the orts, couldn’t even eat any meal that time. He starting vomiting. Weakness and pain in his face was clear. His master, mistress, Sara all cried for him. Leaving all their loves behind, rocky breathed his last! A beautiful little life ended here!
There are many incidents happening around the world which have no scientific explanation or physical existence, rather these can only be felt! Yes! They are the spiritual being roaming around us!
Spirits are something which are beyond the capability of human being to see. But one can sense it’s presence around him/her if it really exist there.
According to my study, i came to a point that, there exist three types of invisible races in this universe! According to Islam religion - One is the Jinn who are made of fire, Second is the Angels who are made of Shines/lustre! And the third one is human soul which we call the spirit!
It is true that our body is just nothing but a medium which is possessed by our soul. Once when the soul leaves the body, we die. Now, according to science, researchers have agreed that the spirits are kind of energy that can create fluctuations in magnetic field when present. Many ghost hunters use magnetic electronics to measure the presence of paranormal things. However, this is a wide and mysterious sector. But yes, the title “ghost” is actually man-made. Every paranormal/ghostly thing that happens around the world, are nothing but the deeds of Jinn. They are another being as Human being. But the difference is only that they are invisible. They can either be good/helpful or badbad (Cause harm to human). They also eat, sleep, pray, and work as human. Moreover, they can possess human body too by controlling over the human soul and collapse the brain’s capability to think clearly.
But the Angels are different. According to many religion, Angels are created to control everything on the earth in obedience to the creator. Human can rarely perceive their presence. They’re unseen and holy!
And the third unseen, human soul! It has no control over itself. It is kind of trapped in our body untill the day we die! But it’s definitely something energetic! (Science and researches may describe better.)
In conclusion, the invisible world remains as a mystery to us for decades. No one can deny the presence of this energy!