Love should be something you rejoice in; and you do...most of the time. But I feel 9 times out of 10 it comes around to bite you in the butt! Then I think about all the killing done in the name of love. Be it God’s love or a simple lover’s quarrel. Love never hurt so good as when it’s combined with passion & it proves that in the midst of all that ...madness; love can still grows to conquer all. You could actually say; Love has to be “bad”, to be “good”. It has to hurt; or it wouldn't feel so good. I do think it can ruin parts of your life if you give it complete control though. Everything in moderation. Give it your all; just don't forget what was like without it...I know I don't ever want to go back there. I don't want to think about a life without you.