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I wish they had told me; I wish I'd known then what I know now
Often in life, we find ourselves unprepared for certain things or thinking back to a time when we were unprepared and wishing someone had told us something important or that you had already known to do that instead of learning it weeks, months, even years down the road. What is something you have learned that you wish you'd known or been told earlier?
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Rosegold285

Strange

I wish I had known not to label myself.

We place so much importance on labels.

It seems to a human condition to categorise and reduce groups into organised boxes.

At first, I tried to discover who I was, and when that failed I tried to become someone who was close to that but easier to explain in a few sentences.

That definition never suited me.

I kept changing it and reviewing it.

I kept looking for that perfect label.

A word that described me in an easily understandable way.

Some words fitted: feminist, skeptic, dreamer, atheist, writer.

Other words never did.

I have never found that label.

I wish I had not spent so much of my later life looking for it.

At the end of the day, I am just plain, old me and there's only one word that sums that up: Strange.