Why Is It The Single People Always Giving The Advice?

I believe that how you should handle such a subject is with honesty. Don't lie to yourself and don't lie to your partner. Maybe you should even tell them. Now, this is just a broad statement because there could be millions of different strings attached, like maybe you don't want to weigh such a thing down on your partner. And well, sometimes to get up, you have to depend on other people, and the best you can do is help them in return.